connections

Recently I made a perhaps rather indulgent purchase that I find myself justifying to others and myself. I bought an iPhone. Now, considering that part of my job is teaching people how to use the iPhone it makes sense that I would have one, however I do find that I have inadvertently put myself into some people’s categories of what constitutes excessive personal technology and unnecessary expense. Besides the fact that my old phone and old palm pilot were both ready to die, I was in need of something that would give me access to my pastoring communication tools on-the-go. (And ideally, now that I have the wordpress application installed, I will even be blogging more.)

But does technology like this promote excessive individualism and discourage the creation of community and connection? I don’t really know for sure but so far I have found that I connect more with people, through email, messaging, phone calls and social networking.

Last night I was on the skytrain heading home late and encountered two different groups of teens who were clustered around little speaker docks with iPods, listening to music or watching videos together. The one group was even encouraging strangers on the train to put their iPods on the dock to listen to their preferred music and they took note of feedback from people who didn’t like the selection that was playing and changed the song.. Perhaps these were instances of community that, though fleeting, was created on the journey.

And really, how else is community created except for in fleeting ways? Community that is overly rigid, overly exclusive and set in it’s ways, runs the risk of being restrictive or unhelpful rather than life-giving and sustaining. On the other hand, I also find great value in community that is rooted in tradition because of the wisdom of many years that seems to breathe within that communal life.

Perhaps part of what makes us human is having a mix of both in our lives, rooting ourselves in traditions of community that are imbued with the wisdom of many generations and then also a playful creation of life-affirming communities that we pass through more or less quickly in our life journeys. Communities of festive enjoyment, like on the train last night; communities of shared meaningful work in our workplaces; communities of worship rooted in ancient liturgical patterns; communities of resistance and solidarity in the face of injustice. Communities of joy, hope, love and peace.

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happiness

“The unhappy person resents it when you try to cheer him up, because that means he has to stop dwelling on himself and start paying attention to the universe. Unhappiness is the ultimate form of self-indulgence. When you’re unhappy, you get to pay a lot of attention to yourself. You get to take yourself oh so very seriously.”

-Tom Robbins, Jitterbug Perfume

learning from a snail

a snail

Tonight I was tired and decided to treat myself to some takeout Indian food from the place down the street that I really like. I had a rather busy day and needed to just eat without having to think about it or work at it too much.

As I was walking I tried to take some time to breathe deeply and enjoy the buzz of the neighbourhood; it’s funny how neighbourhoods are the most lively in the mid-evening, with people sitting on their balconies or stoops, listening to music or chatting with friends. It was a warmish evening and the sun was beginning to throw its day-ending golden light across the sky. The local crows seemed to be having some sort of noisy meeting atop one of the tall apartment towers, and the air smelled moist, it smelled like the possibility of rain.

And in taking this all in I somehow managed to spot, sitting on an ivy leaf, next to a morning-glory flower, a little snail. It was almost as if the whole world was reminding me to slow down and appareciate the world a bit more, enjoy the ordinary relaxed wonderfulness of the world around me. It was lovely and reminded me of a poem I encountered last fall and wrote about called “earth teach me”. You’ll find it here.